All motivational books or all success stories says few common things which are lessons of life or you can say the essence of life. These are few very important lessons which must teach in our lives but unfortunately, nobody teaches these lessons. Maybe you know few of them, but a big part of the population never know that. It’s better to look and focus on those important lessons to be successful in every part of our lives.
Habits Are The Key Factor
Remember one thing in your whole life that you are your habits. You are not what you imagine about yourself in your mind; instead, you are what you do in your everyday life. If you dream to be like a great cricketer of the world, and you are not doing any kind of practice for that then you are only lying to yourself.nothing else. Likewise, if you eat garbage junk food every day and you eat salad one day then you never be in shape or be fit physically. Right habits can change your life. If you doing something continuously then you will get results for sure. The people who always cry and complain about their weight that they are unable to get rid of their fat, this is just because they are not habitual to eat good healthy food. Remember that Habits are not a quick fix. It will take time to make any habit. It will take 1 – 3months to form any habit. So you need a lot of patients. But it is sure that if you succeed in doing a habit for 3 months then nothing holds you back.
Mindset is most Important
The view you adopt for yourself affects the way you lead your life. Majority of people use to blame the things nearby them for their failure like; they say, oh my genetics are not good enough, I belong to a poor family, I am not good looking, to do something extraordinary. But one thing which makes you successful or unsuccessful is your mindset. You need to see the world and understand what kind of mindset you need to be successful in your life. You have only two choices either you can blame the whole world or you can change your mindset. Always complain about your life and its hardships will never help you to make your life better instead only a growth mindset will help you a lot. You should believe in one thing only that hard work and patient will repay you for sure.
Hard Work Beats Talent
Many people complain that they have no special talents but you don’t really need it because it is just like any starting point, where you can start anything. You need a bunch of things to do, for being successful in any field. You know lots of people around you, who have some special talent but still, they are not successful. Many people have lots of talent but unfortunately, all of them are not successful. Why? There are lots of people exist too which are not so much talent but due to their constant hard work, they achieve the success. So stop complaining that you haven’t any talent and start doing hard work. This will surely help you to gain success in your life.
Happiness can’t be Pursued
If you are running around to grab the happiness then you will fail definitely. Happiness can’t be pursued, it can only ensue. Happiness is not like any price or gift which you can get after running for it. If you think like, whenever I achieve something, I will be happy; which is completely wrong. But you surely experience it that happiness never achieves like that way. Happiness comes by itself in your life. Happiness comes When you are working for your purpose or any big thing or you are doing your good habits every day or you are happy in your day to day life. You can’t be happy all of sudden. Happiness will grow over time when you live your life purposefully by doing good deeds with honestly and with having love and compassion for others. It will grow happiness within you.
You won’t get back your Time
Always remember that You won’t get back your time. One day you have to die and nobody can change this truth. Then why you live your life on someone else’s term? At the end of our lives, we won’t regret the things we did instead we regret the things which we didn’t do. Learn new things as much as you can, travel the world, meet a different kind of people with the different background because life is too short and the best way to live life is live your life at your terms. People fight on their religion, caste etc but they forget these small things doesn’t make any sense when they have to die one day. So leave all nonsense things of fighting and be humble and kind and live deeply.