How to Win : Action/Argument

You must know that your Words are only itself the most powerful force available to world for humanity and have lots of energy and power due to human emotion with the ability to help, heal,hurt, harm and to humble. That’s why always wise people say that think before you speak. To know about power of thinking twice you can visit on :

Power of Thinking Twice✌

When you argue with someone,you can’t understand that words are never gonna waste,either you win or lose the argument. By arguing with a superior you talk over the intelligence of them which is always more powerful than that person. Aruguer always having lack of awareness that is root of argument.

Since everyone believes that he is always right, and words will never convince him otherwise because he has a mindset which he doesn’t want to change, that person’s thought goes only on deaf ears and also if cornered, he only argues more, digging his own tomb . Once he has made the other person feel 100% wrong and so person become insecure with feeling of low level in his beliefs, the nobody’s wisdome could not save the situation. So always better to convince your opposite side person by showing your opinion, rather than arguing or trying to dominate them with your words.

Words can be weak and troublesome; in front of strong positive and genuine action. People think you are a Fool if you try to dominate them by your words and still if you win through your words what you think that person will not untrusted to drag you down or defeat you in any how. They become revegful and seeking just one mistake of your so that they can dominate you by their words this time. Words are never neutral regardless of how wisely chosen, are going to come across to the person we’re conversing with.

It doesn’t matter if you’re right or not. Most of the time, especially when arguing, people can be headstrong , and this is fact we ALL think that we’re right so there is no sin to think like that. The strong you argue, the more you disrespect the person and their beliefs , and then they try their 100% effort to resist.

However, if you chose to prove your ideas by your action instead of your words the easier they’ll accept you and your idea, because how can anybody argue with “ already proven proof?” They will able to see what you mean, right in front of them, and they won’t be able to clash you with their point. It takes a little more effotrs than tact to pull this off, but when you do good the right move, you’ll be able to pass your idea most effectively. This is the right way to win without offending sombody.It is much more powerful to get others to agree with you through your actions, without saying a word. Demonstrate, do not explicate.

Now consider a real example of this;Take the engineer in Athens receiving orders from his commander Mucianus to send the largest ship’s mast to be used to help in the siege of the town of Pergumus. The engineer argued that what the commander needed was not the larger mast, but the smaller which would be better suited for the task. Mucianus was infuriated and sent for the engineer who continued to try to explain his reasoning for sending the smaller mast. For his disobedience, he was flogged and scourged with rods until he died.The engineer’s argument went on trash bin and Nobody cared whether or not he was right or wrong.The fact of the matter was that a superior gave a command and he decided not follow and that by insulting the intelligence of his master by arguing was more important to him. Instead of arguing if hr send small and big mast both (and can said take both whichever fit they can use) to his master and when master found that big one is not working then he use small one and also appreciate him too. But he try to win the situation by arguing which makes him in trouble.

Actions and demonstrations are much more powerful than any tons of the words that one can vomit out his mouth. No one can argue with demonstrated proof because The truth is generally seen, rarely heard. To prevent yourself from argument you should Choose Your Battles Wisely always because Sometimes it is best to conserve your energy and walk away!!


Mars in Astrology (part-1) Know How Powerful Your Actions Are!!

Mars is the God of War in astrology and the planet of energy. The mars is the desire. It represents red blood cells in human body. The soul doesn’t take birth and body is unable to take birth again in this world. What makes you come to earth as a human being is a desire. I previously explained in my other article that why people born with certain ascendent on earth with a different mindset. In this article, I explain the mindset according to ascendent and what are the remaining desires in you so that you born again. That’s why everyone has a different mindset due to different desire. The desire of gaining or fulfilling something makes you birth again on earth.

know your ascendant, know your mindset Part-1, Part-2, Part-3.

You can see when the birth chart is described by our great Indian sages they give first house which is your ascendant, to the planet Mars (Aries) and the 8th house which house of death and rebirth assign to mars. Mars is the significator of the 3rd house which is 8th house from 8th house. The reason for your life till death is marred. If someone doesn’t want to come again on earth or take birth the person must have not any desire left.

Mars only gives you result when you fulfill his three rules of the person should have a strong desire or you can say burning(mars is a fiery planet) desire otherwise that desire will not fulfill. The meaning that till your desire is not fulfilled you can’t get rest. The most important is desire should be reachable. Your planetary period will tell that whether your desire is going to fulfilled or not or you can calculate by yourself after making so many efforts to achieve any desire. Mars is a third powerful planet of your birth chart. First is Jupiter which has control of 11 houses, second is Saturn control of 10 houses and mars has 9 houses control.

Equatorial Diameter: 6,792 km
Polar Diameter: 6,752 km
Mass: 6.42 x 10^23 kg (10.7% Earth)
Moons: 2 (Phobos & Deimos)
Orbit Distance: 227,943,824 km (1.52 AU)
Orbit Period: 687 days (1.9 years)
Surface Temperature: -153 to 20 °C
First Record: 2nd millennium BC

To understand what are those houses you can see the house where mars sit + significator of 3 houses(3rd which is a house of subconscious mind, a 4rth house which house of land, property,6th house which is house of disease ,debt and enemy)+ 3 houses aspect(seeing three house from where mars sit)+rulership of 2houses(aries+scorpio). There are at least 7-8 houses affected by mars and these houses only open by desires. Take an example of a 6th house. The 6th house represents your enemy. It doesn’t have any desire you can’t handle your enemy. If you don’t have strong desire to overcome disease you will be ill always.

Mars gives the analytical mind, courage. Mars doesn’t go with the theory he always needs action. Having good Mars people courageous. mars spent average 45 days in each sign but in Capricorn and cancer mars spent 90 days. It exalted in Capricorn and debilitated in cancer. Capricorn is a sign of work holiness. Cancer is a sign of pleasure. Mars positive side is work work work and fulfills all desire which is reachable and genuine but in cancer, mars are the greedy and negative side of mars that’s why sages refer cancer is the debilitation sign for mars.


You can die from someone else’s misery : Judge by results, not by excuses or words

You can notice often that whenever someone is sad, by spending time with that person makes you sad too because Emotional states are as infectious as physical diseases. You may feel that you are helping the needy sad person who is always complaining about his/her life that everything is going wrong in that person’s life but you know what you are only inviting your own disaster. The unfortunate people sometimes draw misfortune on themselves; they will also drag you down it on you at their miserable level.

Those misfortunate people among us who have been brought down by some unlucky circumstances beyond their control deserve all the help and sympathy we can provide them but you never notice that they pass their negative emotions and misfortunes.
If you want happiness in your life to avoid these people who always complain about something instead of being a solution and action-oriented. It’s totally up to you that whether you’re interacting with those who uplift you in life or drag you down. Your friends and relatives with whom you spend most of your time affect your way of thinking, self-esteem, and decisions also.While it’s ideal to be closely surrounded by positive, supportive people who want you to succeed. We’re more affected by our environment than we think.

These people feel and present themselves as victims and these self-made Victims believe they haven’t had a good chance in life and thus feel that something is owed to them for their misfortune. They would rather spend their time trying to make you feel sorry for them whenever they talk they are quick to ask for favors but slow to reciprocate and never willing to do something strong regarding their problems. They are the manipulators and want others to feel their pain and wanted sympathy though they are rarely motivated to take initiative.

Humans are extremely susceptible to the moods, emotions and even the ways of thinking of those with whom they spend their time. The unhappy and unlucky people have a particularly strong infecting power due to their negative characters and negative emotions are so intense. They often present themselves as victims, making it difficult at first, to see their miseries as self-inflicted. Before you realize the real nature of their problems you have been infected by them slowly and because of them you also get frustrated with no reason.

This kind of person never talking about doing good in the world and helping people Or actually going out there and executing their mission and never take any action regarding problems.By observing how one’s actions map against their intentions and words you can quite accurately judge someone’s character. To save yourself and your loved ones you should not take pity in these infectious characters as infected by them you pass that negativity to your loved ones too.Do not mix up yourself in trying to help as there is no benefit of your efforts and if you didn’t believe on my words you can try it in real situations. No matter how much you pit effort these people never come out of blaming life and their no action and no solution making attitude towards life. The infector will remain unchanged, but you will be unmanaged. These people having a fixed mindset rather than a growth mindset.

For being fortunate and happy in life you should Find those who help you increase your strengths with them at you’re the best quality and also possess your weak points in the form of a strength.whenever we decide to be with someone we should be aware to know our own weak points in a way to avoid compiling a weakness with weakness. If this person has the same weaknesses as you then your own weakness are only going to increase at a high level or worse.To be happy and successful in your life, you must Understand how important having a close circle of positive, uplifting, successful people is.If you get affected by someone else’s misery then you gained negativity only nothing positive. On the other hand, by connecting with happy and solution oriented and gratitude feeling people you will attract only good fortune to be obtained.Ignore this Infection of being negative by Avoiding The Unhappy & Unlucky or get infected at your own risk.


Moon in Astrology(Part-3)

The Moon in the 7th house

Moon in 7th house is the best position for the moon because moon rises in the west. So this is the house where moon gets the very much power. Whenever moon in the 7th house, your opposite partner is very caring. Also, it is seeing your 1st house, so other people always have some feelings for you which is very good for native.

The Moon in the 8th house

8th house is a very bad house for the moon.8th house is the house of research, mystic and occult science also. So our sages didn’t allow to go there because it is one-way only. You cant come back after digging so deep into it. These people are overreacting people.

Gender of Moon: Feminine.
Moon as relationship signifies Mother.
Planetary cabinet status of Moon: Queen.
Temperament of Moon: Fickle and Changeable.
Element governed by Moon: Water.
The primary quality of Moon: Serenity
Caste of the Moon: Trader.
Nature of Moon: Benefic when waxing otherwise malefic.
The directional strength of Moon: In the Fourth House.
The directional weakness of Moon: In the Tenth House.

Moon rules the zodiacal Sign: Cancer
Sign of exaltation of Moon: Taurus.
Sign of debilitation of Moon: Scorpio.
Determent or weak sign of Moon: Capricorn.
Moon’s friends are Sun and Mercury.
Moon’s enemy is Saturn, Rahu, Ketu
Moon is friendly with Venus, Mars, Jupiter, and sun.
Moon’s Vimshottari Dasha period: Ten Years.
Nakshatras or Lunar mansions governed by Moon are Rohini Nakshatra, Hasta Nakshatra, and Shravana Nakshatra.

Body part governed by Moon: The Face.
Day of the week governed by Moon: Monday.
Direction ruled by Moon: North-West.
Season governed by Moon: Rainy season.
Metals governed by Moon: Silver.
Colors ruled by Moon: White and Silvery.
Geometrical shape governed by Moon: A circle.
Numbers as per Numerology governed by Moon: Numbers 2, 11, 20, 29 and all those that add up to 2, are governed by it.

Positive keywords for Moon: Sympathy, Receptivity, Protective & Good memory.
Negative keywords for Moon: Touchiness, Worry, Emotional instability, Moodiness & smothering love.

The Moon in the 9th house

Moon in 9th house gives long journeys.Moon is water (sea)and the 9th house is a journey so many times people doing work in near seaport. These people are very much attached to spirituality and they are the God-fearing people. These people are very much attached to visit religious place frequently like a temple, church etc.

The Moon in the 10th house

When moon in 10th house, these people plan very well but inefficient to work. They only planning and having illusion about it. 10th house moon makes a person a good poet, story writer.

The Moon in the 11th house

11th house moon gives more opposite gender friends rather than same gender friends. 11th house moon people desire fulfillment is so much powerful means when their any desire fulfill they are able to enjoy freely. They show their gratitude when their desire is fulfilled. These are always surrounded by friends and wanted by everybody. Their presence makes people happy.

The Moon in the 12th house

This is not a good house for the moon as these people always in thinking mode. They are never steady in one place. These people are prone to travel a lot. But they receive too much affection from mother always. They have either loss of thoughts or so many thoughts. These people forget the things frequently. Whenever these people are in bad mood they do shopping because 12th house also represents losses, expenditure.


Use campher as much as you can.

Remedy for moon

Always respect your mother. Watching the moon at night for few minutes is the simplest remedy. Keeping silver with you also enhance moon’s energy.

more knowledge about the remedy


Moon in Astrology(part-2)

Moon in the 1st house

1st house is the house of your body in the birth chart, where the moon is a placed so your body always ruling the mood. If you don’t feel good any day you will like to stay at home. When the moon is placed in 1st house people are always moody. You can’t judge them from outside. These people are very attention seeking persons. When they dress up well and people didn’t notice and give compliment they feel depressed why he/she didn’t say good something to me.

Moon in the 2nd house

People having moon in the 2nd house they have so much affection for their family. Even when they are working and not with the family or outside, again and again, they will call the family asking all are good?what are you doing etc. They feel, care more about their family. These people always count their money twice. These people like liquid items more. Every time they are having food they prefer having cold drinks or lassi or something else with food. Moon in 2nd house makes people soft-spoken.

Moon in the 3rd house

Moon in 3rd house people does more window shopping. they have nature of asking so many things but taking nothing because the moon is mood only action govern by mars. This means you have the courage to see the things but not do the things. Moon in the 3rd house means a lot of short journeys because 3rd house represents the short distance travel in Vedic astrology. These people get a lot more dream between 2 is to 4 am because the 3rd house is the house of subconscious mind too. These people who’re a moon in 3rd house are good hypnotizer too. Their vocal chord is very good.

The Moon is the Earth’s only natural satellite.

It is the fifth largest moon in the Solar System.

The Moon orbits the Earth every 27.3 days.

Mons Huygens is the tallest mountain on the Moon, it is 4700 meters tall, just over half the height of Mt Everest (8848m).

A lunar eclipse occurs when the Earth is between the Sun and the Moon.

The Moon rotates on its axis in around the same length of time it takes to orbit the Earth. This means that from Earth we only ever see around 60% of its surface (50% at any one time).

The diameter of the moon: 3,475 km
Mass of moon: 7.35 × 10^22 kg (0.01 Earths)
Orbit Distance: 384,400 km
Surface Temperature: -233 to 123 °C

Moon in the 4rth house

Moon is not giving good result in the 4th house either you have a good connection with your mother or either you don’t understand the feeling of your mother. 4th house moon you so much pleasure as due to this you didn’t get a sound sleep due to insecurity.

Moon in the 5th house

5th house moon people dream about their past life. They have some ability to go to trans and see the things which are already happened or going to happen. Their child will too very emotional.

Moon in the 6th house

6th house moon gives the feeling of the illness. For example, if you are reading symptoms of some disease in the newspaper you match that to yourself and go to the doctor. these people though they are sick and they fall sick. They never face such disease but they have fear to caught by some disease. These people start negativity themselves only.

Moon in Astrology(part-1)


Your Habits => Your Decision => Your Success

Only Habits can tell 95% of a person’s behavior.Everything that you are doing today, and everything that you will ever accomplish in your future, is determined by the quality of the habits that you form in the day to day life.By creating good habits and adopting a positive behavior, you too can become successful and live a prosperous life. For making good habits you can follow few points:

High Self Concept

The term self-concept is a general term used to refer to how someone thinks about, evaluates or perceives themselves.This does not necessarily have to reflect reality.

Positive experience+Negative experience= Lifetime impact

Self-concept is Master programme of The computer of your Subconscious mind which works like the operating system of your Brain. Action, Feelings, and Achievements are dependent on self-concept. No matter how capable you are if your self-concept is low you can never perform at your best level.

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Self Discipline

Motivation < Self Discipline

Most people hate discipline because they force to maintain discipline at an early age in schools. Another reason may be in movies most of the tome hero never maintain any discipline in his life and get everything in 2-hour movie. It creates a deep impact on the human brain. But in real world most successful people always maintain self-discipline in their lives.

Self-discipline is the ability to make yourself to do what you should do when you should do it wherever you feel like it or not.

Motivation works mostly less than a week but self-discipline works forever. It helps to increase your self-confidence and self-esteem.

Feed Mind With Mental Protein

Mental protein = Postive Thoughts + Everyday a dose Knowledge

If you want that your brain helps you to get you to achieve the success you must feed your brain useful information instead of negative news which is showing all the time on news channel regarding politics and negativity. Mental protein means you need to feed your mind every day with some valuable knowledge instead of feeding the television serial drama and negative media news by television or internet. You notice that All luxury car’s advertisement never be on television because advertising company also know that the people who can buy Ferrari never wasted time in front of the television. These people usually never feed their mind with unhealthy media news. They know that this never gives anything positive these negative news only consume their time and affect the productivity. They always feed positive knowledge of books. Entertainment is like junk food which is not harmful if consume sometimes but if daily consumed it makes an unhealthy diet for the brain.

Goal Setting

Goal Setting= Actions bringing you closer to your goals

Goals are what take us forward in life; they are the oxygen to our dreams.Goal setting is a powerful process for thinking about your ideal future, and for motivating yourself to turn your vision of this future into reality.Goals Give You Focus as If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.One half of knowing what you want is knowing what you must give up before you get it because if you didn’t know how you become successful, you set a goal, you lock it in and then give it your 100%.


Prepare a list of to-do tasks for next day, before sleep. And make sure you must one task on your to-do list which helps you to achieve your long-term goal.

Health Orientation

Health = Absence of Disease+ A state of complete physical, mental and social well-being and not merely

The term ‘health’ is a positive and dynamic concept. In common parlance, health implies the absence of disease. Good Health is the greatest blessing of life. Good health is very important because a person of good health can put through a large amount of work in a short time.There is a huge difference between successful and unsuccessful people which is being health conscious. Successful people always take care of their health and unsuccessful people always ignore their health and eat unhealthily like junk food, deep fry food and never do any exercise or physical task. The ignorance of health due to work costs unhealthy body and lots of expenses on health in long-term. They easily attract so many diseases and spend whatever they earn with their time. For this fact, you can see in hospitals there are lots of people who almost go to the doctor for their health issue frequently due to their carelessness.

Good health can be gained and preserved by plenty of exercise in the open air.We should get up early and take a brisk walk.Our diet should be balanced. We should take proper food. Ordinary, food that we take is enough for health, if we take it fresh and in proper quantity.Another thing about health is that we should rest and sleep in time.The essential thing for staying in good health is to free the mind from cares and anxieties as far as possible.


Moon in Astrology(part-1)

Moon is nothing but your mood, mother, and her nourishment, sound sleep, and imagination power and in human body it reorient plasma in blodd cells. All the Indian festivals follow the moon like tithi,panchang,muhurat, transit etc and most important sadhe Sati is seen from moon sign. From moon placement, moon sign and which mahsdasha you going to face after birth are also decided in Vedic astrology.If your moon is healthy, this will give you a friendly and compassionate nature.mental illness and mood fluctuations also cause by the badly placed moon.

Those who don’t believe in astrology also know that moon is the cause of tide.Water on earth is persistently moving over a vast space, and Moon’s slighter gravitational pull is able to create tides. Therefore, each day, there are two high tides and two low tides.human body too is made up of 70% water and that’s why fluctuations caused by moonlight, like rising in the levels of melatonin, which affected sleep by 20 minutes. And, just like water bodies, Moon’s gravitational pull also has an effect on our body; eventually affecting our mood.

King Daksha Prajapati had 27 daughters (which are starts constellation or nakshatras). The name of all are Ashwini, Pushya, Swati, Sravana, Bharani, Ashlesha, Vishakha, Dhanishtha, Krittika, Magha, Anuradha, Satabisha
Rohini, Poorvaphalguni, Jyeshta, Poorvabhadrapada,
Margashira, Uttaraphalguni, Moola, Uttarabhadrapada, Ardra, Hasta, Poorvashada, Revati, Punarvasu, Chitra, and Uttarashadha. All of them were married to Chandra(moon), the moon god, on the condition that he would treat them equally. But he loved only one of his wives, Rohini, and shown the brightest on the night when he visited her(moon is exalted on Rohini nachhtra). The other wives were sad and complained about this to their father, who cursed Chandra that he would stop shining. All day the sun god, nourished Chandra produced divine drink some which nourished the gods lost their source of strength. They ran to Brahma for help. On Brahma’s advice, Chandra chanted the ‘Maha Mrityunjaya’ mantra ten crore times. This pleased Lord Shiva and he partially freed him from the curse. Since then Chandra shines only on certain nights.

Wherever moon is placed in your birth chart, your mood is always changing regarding that house. One has to always see which tithi he/she is born for understanding moon effect on him/her. Tithi says the distance between the sun(represent your soul) and moon(represent your mind) on that birthday. As the sun is a very smart planet as he does not allow anyone to come closer if any planet goes very near to sun it will make the planet combust or retrograde. Sun makes confuse every planet, the only moon is the planet who goes in front of the sun in full moon. Whenever this happens that day becomes full moon day or Poornima and your mood is enhanced. That’s why during the waxing and banning moon people nature differs. When your moon is placed very well in your birth chart your mood will remain constant. Moon is the significator of 4rth house in the birth chart which is a house of comfort zone. If somebody’s moon is in the 3rd,9th or 11th house of the birth chart, never get a sound sleep. This is because moon placed in 6th,8th and 12th house of its significator house(4th house). For example, 3rd house moon gives dreams, lots of dreams about work that you see you are working. And in the morning you wake up you feel actually tired.


Choose the Easy Or Choose the Right…

How you wake up each day and your habits for the things you do at each morning dramatically affects your levels of success in every single area of your life. Pushing the snooze button of alarm at every morning gives us permission to not follow through on the things we need to do. Doing some small positive changes in your habits the way you wake up in the morning, you can change any area of your life like personal or professional, faster than you ever imagine.Each time when you decide to do the easy task like average people do, instead of the right task. You are making your personality, becoming the type of person who does what’s easy for a late wake up and always do things in hurry before office or doing anything else, rather than what’s right like early wake-up and early to bed and do the things in proper order and follow the discipline in eating,sleeping, anything and in life.

When you start choosing to do the right things and follow all those things and you don’t like to follow still you force yourself to do only right then you are developing the extraordinary discipline which most people never develop in their life or even think about it. This habit will shape your personality in order to necessary of life for creating extraordinary outcomes in your life. If you don’t believe it gives a try at least for one month strictly. You always end up of thinking that Discipline creates a lifestyle, a standard which makes you different from other average people.

When the alarm clock ringing and we just half closed eyes, press the snooze button which is the easy thing to do for most of the people, at that moment. Most people think that this deed is only affecting 10 min or 20 min, that’s it but The reality is that this type of action is giving the signal to our subconscious mind with the list of rules which defend that action that it is okay for us to not follow right path and so we don’t need to follow the alarm clock and get up on time and do those things we intended to do like sleep more.Always keep in your conscious mind that what your identity is far more important than what your daily life actions in each moment of your life, and yet it is what you’re doing that is determining who you’re becoming day by day. Like compound interest, effect rule applies in your life.

To know more about this rule you can visit on You Must Know the Compound Intrest Effect on Your Life

The positive change in your lifestyle starts the night before. In the beginning, You need to place your alarm clock or mobile if you use mobile for alarm, at the other end of your bedroom, so you have to physically get up to turn it off. Doing so you make your body to move physically and it also helps to get out of your sleeping mode.Once you’re wake up, immediately Have a glass of lukewarm water, do the oil pulling and Brush your teeth after that Wash your face immediately. These very simple but effective tasks alone will wake you up enough to get start your Life changing Morning Ritual. Example of a morning ritual in 6 tasks. You can give 1 minute for each one.

1. Listen your inner sound and remember the supreme power of the universe in few minutes:

For this task, you need to sit in the place where no disturbing sound is coming. You can sit very peaceful, and you breathe deeply, slowly and say a prayer of gratitude to appreciate the moment or pray for guidance on your journey and pay thanks for you are alive not whatever you can feel about yourself positively or you can do meditation.

2. Read Affirmations: You write some positive goals and good things about your life which motivate you and read it daily.These affirmations remind you of your unlimited potential and your most important priorities of life in every aspect of financial, personal, relationship etc.

3.Visualization Of Future version of Yourself: the better you

Close your eyes and visualize where you want to see yourself I’m future. It is because you are sending a signal to subconscious mind what you want from yourself. Your mind works in pictures that’s why you need this method of Visualization.

4.Writing Habit

Write down all negative things comes unto mind doing so you are throughout all negativity from the mind and then write your daily schedule of the day like important things like learning any new thing or learning guitar etc not washing clothes or shopping etc.


Grab your self-help book and invest one miraculous minute reading a page or two. You learn a new idea, something that you can implement into your day. You discover something new that you can use to feel better. All successful people always invest their time in reading you can google it.

6.Physical movement or Exercise

At last minute of morning habits, you must stand up and spend the last minute, doing jumping jacks for few seconds and getting your heart rate up and getting energized. you can start waking yourself or you can do 5 push-ups.

It takes hardly 6mintue to follow morning ritual but effects are amazing. In starting you did not see much difference but making it regular you will notice the difference in lifestyle slowly but long-lasting positive effects.


The Sun in Astrology (part-3)

When The Sun sits in the 11th house The person with such a placement tends to make powerful friends and indulge in a lot of group activities. Here Sun indicating may be honor by authority or Government and Maybe get Name and Fame and become Famous.But Sun In 11th may cause trouble for children.

Having Sun in 12th house There is always a feeling of detachment from the father and it will make someone a loner and the restriction will be imposed by himself, not by others. .The native having Sun in 12th house should stay involved in spiritual aspects and should learn to forgive others even to enemies as that will benefit them.

Surya (also known as Aditya) is the Hindu god of the Sun. He is considered the creator of the universe and the source of all life. He is the supreme soul who brings light and warmth to the world. Each day he travels across the sky in his golden chariot pulled by seven horses and driven by red Aruna, a personification of Dawn.Surya first appears in literature in the Rigveda, oldest of the Vedas sacred texts and composed between 1500 and 1000 BCE. The bringer of the Sun, Surya was thought to ride his chariot across the sky and defeat the demons of darkness.

When Sun is weakly posited in a horoscope or is malefic, the person is always insecure about their social status and position. As a remedy, You should take your father’s blessings and pay respect, as it is one of the most powerful remedies for Sun.Perform Surya Namaskar. This will not even strengthen the weak Sun but also help you stay healthy.

The Sun In Astrology(part-2)

The Sun In Astrology(part-1)

Habits, Happiness, life

No Awareness about Awareness!!!

One day, a frog that lives at the bottom of a shallow well speaks in high spirits to a fish of the Sea.

“My life in the well is really a joy! When I jump out of the well, I climb onto the outside rail. When I return, I rest in a crack inside the well. As I swim, the well water covers my armpits but my head rests on it. Playing in the mud, I bury my feet in it. Look at the cockles, crabs, and toads around me—who lives as happily as I do? Furthermore, this well is my own territory, serving my own enjoyment. What a wonderful life this is. Why don’t you come in to see for yourself?”

At the frog’s invitation, the fish prepares to enter the well. The fish retreats to the good side and starts to speak to the frog about the sea.

“How big is the sea? Even a thousand miles would not describe its breadth; ten thousand feet would not describe its depth.Not to be affected by the passage of time or wax and wane of the tide—thus is the great joy of living in the Sea. Sea is very very large in size you can’t even imagine”

Hearing about the sea, the frog is shocked. It starts to sense the smallness of its own life in the well. He asked fish with his hands that sea is that much large? Fish replied no, then frog asked the wall outside the well and another side of the wall, this distance can measure the length of sea. Fish replied no. It’s very very big.He said to fish that you are a liar. Nothing can be as big as you are describing. Because there is nothing beyond this wall.frog was right at his place and fish is right at her place. But if frog assumes that may be whatever fish is saying right? But he did not assume and declared that fish is wrong completely.

Now you can realize that you had to spend so much of your time focusing your attention on a very little thing and was missing out on the bigger picture of anything.I think we all do it.We get so caught up in thinking about our own problems, challenges or mistakes, that we ignore the possibilities all around us. Just like the frog thought he had something special because he never ventured out beyond his little well. Until the fish came along and opened up his mind to greater possibilities.

Just one new piece of information can completely alter a person’s perspective of who they are and what they’re capable of.Get out of your well to explore, learn and grow.If you’d really like to blow open your awareness of what’s possible the Be aware of every single second of your life.

Awareness is the ability to know and perceive, to feel, or to be cognizant of events on the level of your mind, body, and soul.More broadly, it is the state of being conscious in every single movement of life.When problems of daily life are not discussed, they remain in the unconscious mind and are never understood but they are making you restless and depressed without knowing any reason. There is three level of awareness mind, body, and soul.

Factors such as stress, unhealthy diet, and strained relationships can all influence the balance that exists between a person’s physical and mental health. These unbalanced energies, in turn, leave that person with sickness, tiredness or making a person lethargic.

Be Aware of the level of your Body

One method to make your body aware is oil pulling.Oil pulling originated in ancient India by sages as part of natural healing practices which is described in ancient Ayurveda texts.Ayurvedic oil pulling system is a holistic system of medicine that was formed around 3,000 to 5,000 years ago. The oral health practices of Ayurveda like chewing on sticks of herbs and eating herbs, as well as oil pulling. After wake up in the morning, you can do the oil pulling with coconut oil or sesame oil. This charge up your body immediately.For this process Put 1-2 teaspoons of coconut oil into the mouth.Swish for 20 minutes.Spit oil into the trash can.Rinse well with lukewarm water and Brush well. Stretching body and exercise a little make body more aware. Follow some morning ritual. I will write about some effective morning ritual in my future post.

Be Aware At The level of Mind

The practice of making your mind aware begins with concentration and observation. To observe is to notice and examine dispassionately without judgment or interpretation. The key to effective observation is detachment a dispassionate objectivity that unlinks what is observed from meaning. Meaning whenever any problem or situation occurs be detached like you are a third person and then observe everything what is going on and what is the best solution.one other method is to eat according to Ayurveda to make mind strong.Our mind is made of the food we take in daily life.In the Ayurvedic system, food is associated with medicine.Eat your food as your medicines. Otherwise, you have to eat medicines as medicine.In an Ayurvedic system of food intake rules, are: Food Should Be Freshly cooked warm which helps to stimulate digestive fire.Little oil in food is a must for better digestion.Food Must Be Taken In Proper Quantity according to persons age, work and need.Eat only when the previous meal is properly digested.Avoid Contradictory Food.For example, combining sour fruits with milk will curd and is not considered beneficial due to poor food combining and incompatibility of the ingredient.One should not eat when feeling nervous, angry, anxious, or in a disturbed state of mind as it leads to emotional eating.Eating too slowly or too rapidly along with eating while talking, laughing, thinking or watching television is also not advisable in Ayurveda. Pay Attention To Your Food While Eating and do not watch TV or do anything else like planning your day or thinking about someone.Do Not Eat Food Which Is too Hot Or too Cold as it affects your digestive fire.

Be aware At the level of Soul

The whole concept of spiritual awareness isn’t all about connecting with a higher divine power, but also connecting with nature and yourself. For making yourself aware at the level of soul you must do some yoga.

How To Make Your Soul Aware


The Sun In Astrology(part-2)

7th house is not a good place to have for the sun. Sun hates to be in the 7th house.In this case, often partner is dominating and the native finds it difficult to make adjustments. But When the sun sits in the 7th house, It is important to you to have a partner, as you feel incomplete without one and you are especially sensitive to rejection. Avoid putting harmony and others’ opinions of you above your own needs.

The Sun placement in 8th house of birth chart creates a desire to go towards the mysteries of life and death and rebirth process. Such individuals are very much interested in discovering the meanings of life, constantly seeking for answers on whether death is the final destination or we continue towards somewhere else. This position also creates some unknown fear in personality. This house is quite good for the native’s finances as it is the house of sudden gain.

Konark temple in India is Dedicated to the Hindu god Surya which is Sun.At present time what remains of the temple complex has the appearance of a 100-foot (30 m) high chariot with immense wheels and horses, all carved from stone. Once over 200 feet (61 m) high, in particular, the large peak tower over the sanctuary; at one time this rose much higher than the towers that remain. The structures and elements that have survived are famed for their intricate artwork. Also called the Surya Devalaya, it is a classic illustration of the Odisha style of Hindu temple architecture.

The Sun in the ninth house will give an eye to see far beyond the scene. These people won’t see life with a simple view as they will explore the life by all the possible ways. They will be highly curious to attain all the knowledge present around and would be truly philosophical & spiritual in their approach as 9th house is the religion/luck house in the birth chart and sun is a very satvik planet.Education is strongly connected to the native’s self-esteem; this makes them a priority and a driving force for his personal success.

The 10th house represents the father in Vedic astrology and if Sun is in 10th house, it is beneficial to the father of the individual. The sun finds directional strength in this house.Most of time natives Father is strict in discipline.Sometimes the father is in government service or higher post in a society that’s why father finds less time to spend on the upbringing of the native.The individual to serves the father very well in the latter’s old age or in any other kind of disability of the father.

The Sun in Astrology (part-3)

The Sun In Astrology(part-1)

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Why You Feel Exhausted Frequently

In spite of our best efforts to be more productive, it is very easy to get tired in a day.Although the causes may vary from person to person. It may be clutter full home or workplace or toxic people or low water intake or maybe no time management.

More useless items or clutter in your home or office, the more difficult it is for your brain to concentrate, causing low energy level in you or draining out your energy and you feel exhausted without doing any hard work. For homemakers, its also applies to the kitchen too. An unorganized and dirty kitchen can add more stress and makes to unhealthy food choices. To avoid this, Always keep your place well organized and clean with no useless item or clutter. If you start adding more body movements or being more physically active in your daily life, your energy level stays higher for longer. This makes your quality of life is better than before.


Less water intake in a day can cause headaches and difficulty in focusing on anything.Try to drink more water using a reminder on a cell phone or many apps will remind you to drink more water.These apps are free on play store of mobile.Not getting enough energy-making vitamins and minerals can also exhaust you very frequently like vitamins B and magnesium. Start taking healthy food items and a balanced diet.

Negative people always try their best to irritate you, drag you down, get you into a negative cycle and create conflicts and anger in your life. For dealing this to save your energy You can minimize interactions with them.Toxic people want to you for their problems.Time with them is about taking care of their issues, which will leave you feeling frustrated 100% if not angry. Your time and energy are essential to your own life and your family.The only way to protect yourself from them is to limit or cut off entirely contact.Offer no explanation always to them no matter what.

Without having a good time management a person can have a negative impact on a project in the long run which causes feeling exhausted without doing so many tasks. Prioritise all your tasks daily before sleep, according to their importance. Break them down into the smaller task. This will help you gain better outcomes without feeling exhausted management isn’t is a key aspect of energy management and involves skills such as planning, setting goals and prioritizing for a better performance. It helps to give a positive direction to your day uses minimum energy.


The Sun In Astrology(part-1)

The Sun is Light, Creator, the King of all other Planets and most important the sun is the first significator of astrology. There would be no life on earth without Sun. Sun is the centre of extreme power and all the planets revolve around him due to his huge gravitational force. Sun is indeed the Lord and Almighty.The sun is the significator of the Soul in astrology. But the sun never give the results because King never works. The Sun is highly inefficient planet. The house occupied by the Sun in the birth chart, is only brighten. The sun makes you to available to be seen,by the light of the sun you can see the other things,the sun represents heart too.

The sun is the significator of the first house (soul,immune system or resistance power,white blood cells,confidence) and 10th house(father,DNA,name,fame,recignition,connection with the government). If the sun is not placed well in your birth chart and Navmansha chart then whole life you will lack of confidence, poor immune system,Low self esteem. Where Sun sits in birth chart this makes people focus on that house,eye on that house. Now if your sun is placed in first house, people only see your face. You make an impression on others — you have “presence” — and you know it. You are self-conscious, although you may prefer to project a strong image.When sun sits in second house of birth chart ,your family is very famous. You known by your family reputation. When sun sits in the 3rd house of birth chart, you always show to people who is your sibling due to their reputation or due to your deed you will be known to people as 3rd house is the house of courage and younger sibling. Like you always say many time, my brother is doctor or he is enggineer. Or some of Your work will always be appriciated or known to everyone like people say to you are that person who did that deed. When sun is in your 4th house of birth chart,your house will be situated in some well known place to public. Like just behind some famous building. Everything will be luxurious and known by people which luxuries and wealth you are enjoying but It’s not good for your heart. When sun is in 4th house these people make so much changes in others life like swami vivekanand and lord Krishna and generation to generation people will remember to them.

Day: Sunday
Direction: East
Colour: Red,Orange
Time spend in One Zodiac Sign: One Month
Nature: Authoritative and Dominative
Star ruled: Krittika , Uttara Phalguni and Uttara Ashadha
Friendly planets: Mars, Jupiter and Moon
Enemy planets: Saturn and Venus
Neutral planets: Mercury
Own Sign : Leo
Mool Trikon in: Leo 20 Degree
Exalted in: Aries 10 Degree
Debilitated in: Libra 10 Degree
Metal: Gold and copper
Vimshottari Mahadasha period: 6 years
If well placed signifies: Courage, father, political power
If adversely placed signifies: Arrogance and jealous nature
Body parts ruled: Heart, brain, head, eye, bones, chest, lungs and stomach
Diseases given by Sun: Weak eyesight, headache, bone weakness,baldness, heart problems,etc

If sun is in your 5th house,you must be known by your child. Due to your child deed or child’s name and fame gives you credit. 5th house is the judgement house of your past birth,what you did in your past life is stored in 5th house of birth chart which you never able to see. But when your sun is in the 5th house each of your good and bad deed come into the surfac or known by people. If sun is in your 6th house then it is not a good sign as you know all your enemy but you unable to defeat them. You know about what decease or known genetic decease you are going to face in future but still you did not do anything. Your mindset is like what can I do with this ? Let it be. They are always into litigations and debt. There is a fix time those who are born in between 8pm to 10pm,there sun will be in 6th house. There is a warning for these people that always take care of your health because you know in future which kind of decease you can face to do regular checkup etc. Other planet doesn’t tell you which decease you are going to face but sun openly challenge that in future if you are going to face same decease like your father. Even though these people facing lots of problem in their lives but didn’t take any action.

The Sun In Astrology(part-2)

The Sun in Astrology (part-3)


Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-4)

It’s already been done by someone else, this is 4rth common excuse given by people.The truth is, no matter what you think to do, your idea will mostly be taken by someone else. It’s easy to say as an excuse that “that’s already been done.” Of course, it’s already been done, actually, everything has already been done unless you’re in a field which is 100% untapped. But that’s the exceptional the case.Whenever admit the truth that having new ideas always isn’t the formation that takes apart other’s ideas, you are mentally prepared for what’s possible and what you can truly achieve.

Look at Steve Jobs, he didn’t invent the computer, mobile digital media player or the cell phone. But he made all of them a heck of a much more better, and he’s known as an innovator because of it.When you want to do something that other people are already doing, your idea has already been validated autometically. It means you already have a starting point, from which your idea can grow because others also growing with the same idea.

The next most common excuse is what people say or what my friends think about me if I do something I like to do??or something must be done??When we start to depend on what society, friends or relative think of us, and we make their opinion basic to our potential, we get into trouble. By doing this automatically We start cutting our lives to fit the expectations of others.

Why we give power to others ?and allow them for pressions to become how we believed, we feel lost that who we really are. The only reality we can see is how we believe others see us which is not true exactly.

The greed of Praise: Proving to Society

Greed of praise from others or fear of failure always try to push you back.

There are never ending excuse but you can overcome to all of them. Everything is possible if you have dare and strong desire to do something.

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-3)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-2)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-1)

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Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-3)

I can’t afford it, this is a 3rd most common excuse. Don’t waste your energy of brain in making excuse like this.Most people use “I can’t afford it” as an excuse for being afraid to step up and work on their challenges. Those who make this type of excuse easily seem to have some other sort of excuses like” not having enough money” or “no smart brain” of their own. It is hard to be motivated if you don’t believe in yourself. If you say you can’t afford it that means you are not disciplined enough to get what you want.Find a source of discipline when you want something. We all lack discipline at times, but the difference is that people, who are wealth creator, realize the lack and seek out a way to find the discipline needed for by putting optimum efforts to make desire money by maintaining disciple of saving and investing their saved money by learning how to invest and how to grow money from money.Overcoming fear is one step in the process of accumulating wealth. Only saving doesn’t create much more wealth.Having one source of income is a bigger risk than taking a risk on doing something on your own like generating passive income source. But always remember You must have an attitude of gratitude.

Challenging your brain with mental exercise like solving puzzles or playing chess is believed to activate processes that help maintain individual brain cells. Chess needs to focus for a long time to win.Many people have jobs that keep them mentally active, but learning any new skill, or helping others for a work which needs a skill you don’t use in your daily life will help to maintain your brain sharper!!

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-4)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-2)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-1)


Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-2)

Every Successful person makes the commitment to dedicate their free time to the pursuit of learning (instead of relaxing in front of the television.) And they stick to their promise of learning new things. Where “I don’t know how it’s too hard”, this is the second excuse most people talk about. With a small amount of planning, you can learn any skills or anything whatever it is doesn’t matter, to a sufficient level with around 20 hours and often less of concentrated, focused effort.With the mindset of learning, there are countless things you can learn in your spare time by using deep work strategy.Deep work strategy is the type where you need to plant out in really deep to get the work done. It takes time, though, inspiration, motivation, and passion. It may result from of best outcome in a little period of time. But more often you need to spend enough time on what you are doing, without any distraction of social media or tv or mail checking or frequently notification checking while working.

Who cares in this world about becoming a world-class expert in one special thing or special expertise? Learning tons of different skills to a fulfilling the level is where it’s at! But remember that If you want to get best at any skill where in your real-life performance matters, you have to actually practice that skill in context always. Dividing the skill into possible smallest parts you’re trying to learn and then identifying which of those parts are most important, then purposely practicing those parts of skill first. The amount of desire to learn that skill helps you to get the best outcome.


Frequent learning sessions are much better than longer, infrequent ones mean deep work strategy is a must.You can speed up your learning and remember more means start teaching others whatever you learn, this will help to remember and when you giving knowledge to others you are more concern about your knowledge that what wisdom you are delivering. This helps to make your own knowledge more adequate.You can learn faster when you practice distributed learning, or “spacing” reason is human brain actually pays less attention during short learning intervals.20-minute power nap boosts concentration, alertness, creativity, and mood. But Make sure you set an alarm clock for 20 min when it is time to wake up. For avoiding noise you can use earplugs. These naps are a useful item in your toolbox for when you need a quick refreshment break.

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-3)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-1)

Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-4)

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Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-1)

The word “EXCUSITIS” comes from the word “excuse”. As making excuses all the time in your life you may believe that your excuses really exist and it is called The disease of the failures or excusitis. Every “average” person mostly suffering from this disease in any of their life aspects either financial or in a relationship or any other like the aspect of health. These excuses are in the group with Limiting tiny Beliefs and Self Told-Lies which you continuously telling to yourself in your mind, and they try to diagonal your goals and dreams from converting into reality. But always remember that You are the only one who can cure yourself of this disease.

Check yourself are you suffering from this excuse making disease or not? The most common excuse sentences are: I don’t have time, I don’t know how It’s too hard, I can’t afford it, It’s already been done, will do it later and last but not the least is Other people will judge me. What if my friends think I’m stupid for doing this?

We always have time to do the things we love or enjoy doing (social media) or the things we see the value( like shopping) in doing.

Saying always to others and yourself that I don’t have time to learn a new language or new techniques, I don’t have time to do yoga or exercise and get fit, I don’t have time to start a business, I don’t have time to do this or that or anything else all are lies which you try to make others convinced that you haven’t enough time to do work that’s why you are living the way which you can’t change. how is it exactly that you don’t have enough time?

Think of everyone who has ever achieved greatness like Archimedes, Michelangelo, Shakespeare and anyone else you can think of who was successful in life with having 24 hours in a day Same as you, not even a single extra second.This means that finding the time is not the issue. If history-making persons can find the time to make that history then you reasonably can find the time to do things done on time. If you have two important tasks, start with the biggest, hardest, and most important task first. Try to Discipline yourself to begin immediately and then to persist until the task is completely done before you go on to something else. If you prioritize focusing without distraction for a significant amount of time on the cognitively demanding task being at the core of your workplace or any area of the life there’s a huge advantage to be gained.

Your success in life is the sum of your habits. So try to Decide exactly what you want, Write it down, thinking on paper is critical, Set a deadline on your goal and List the steps necessary for the achievement of the desired goal.Organize the list into a plan (priority and sequence).Take action on your plan immediately.Do something every day to move closer to that goal by making small stupid goals.There is never enough time to do everything, but there is enough time to do the most important things. By organizing the priorities you can have much more time for some productive work. This time management also helps to get rid of ”having no time” excuse!!!

Part 2-Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-2)

Part 3– Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-3)

Part 4– Excusitis: The Disease of Failures(Part-4)

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How to Deal with Your Enemies

This is very well known that in the day to day life Everyone faces enemies. Whether you did not think bad about someone still people gonna hate you. Because you can’t make everyone happy. The people who are not happy with you become your enemy. Due to jealousy, some people become your enemy. You can learn to understand your enemy, get rid of them completely, and defend yourself if necessary.It is absolutely true that finding Enemies near you, are never easy task always. They always hide under the dressing gown of dearness you can’t easily recognize them.It has happened much time in your life at the workplace and surrounding too. Even if you have pure intentions about everyone near you still you can’t avoid their unnecessary presence in your life. What you can do, is learn how to well respond to these unwanted enemies and protect yourself. The Famous guru of India, Chanakya rule about the enemy is:

The remainder of an enemy can become active like those of a disease or fire. Hence, these should be destructed completely. One should never ignore an enemy, knowing him to be weak. He becomes dangerous in due courses, like the spark of fire in a haystack.pexels-photo-260907.jpeg

This law applies to daily life as you can analyze the thinking process of how you reach your field. But remember that doesn’t get that you don’t have to physically “crush your enemy”.“Crushing your enemy” is a thinking process from which you approach your field in order to dominate your competition.Everyone has a weakness and your enemy has too.When finding the weakness of your enemy will be needful to planning your goal and getting your enemy defeated.The easy way to avoid these enemies is to just avoid them.Never listen to them.

In Life, either there is the enemy or the friend.It’s the enemy to which you need to destroy and it’s the friend to which you surrender. Always remember that never sympathize with your enemies.Your enemy will bide his time and strike back when you didn’t expect.When you hope for reunion, it will make you hesitate. Your enemies may act friendly for the time being, but they will eventually destroy you. And this is not the new thing I am telling you. You noticed it at many times in your life.An enemy that is left around is like a half-dead viper that you nurse back to health.Give your enemies nothing to negotiate.You must defeat, and deny them the chance to return to haunt you.

They have no hope of recovering, insinuating themselves and hurting you again ever in their life. And if they cannot be banished, at least understand that they are plotting against you, and pay no heed to whatever friendliness they mold.

Sometimes It Is Better To Let Your Enemies Destroy Themselves

Leave your enemy an exit route. A refuge is the ultimate demoralizing defeat.Let them be their own destruction maker.
The risk of crushing an enemy is you back get up them so much so that they spend decades plotting revenge. Do not let your guard down.

You use surrender technique to gain all information access to your enemy.Treat them like your best friend. Ask them about their life as enthusiastically as you would someone you are genuinely interested in. You learn his ways, insinuate yourself with your enemy slowly, outwardly conform to his customs, but inwardly maintain your own tactics. You will come victorious, for while your enemy con­siders you weak and inferior, and takes no precautions against you, you are using the time to surpass your enemy. This soft, entry form of attack is often the best, for the enemy has nothing to react to you, your enemy is unprepared.

The idea of surrendering is to save your hide for a later time when you can prove yourself. The surrender tactic disguises your ambition. This teaches you patience and self-control that how to tolerate the person whom you did keylike and it puts you in the best possible position for taking advantage of your enemy. If your enemy is powerful than you and you run away or fight back, then for a long time you cant win. If you surrender, you will almost always come with victoriously.You must do it tactfully without ever speaking ill of the person in question.


Numerology Master Number 22

If you were born on the 22nd of any Month, your birth number is master number 22. A person with Life Path 22 is said to be endowed with special gifts of high-level inspiration and leadership, but their life may also be very challenging and highly paradoxical. Life path 22 people are confident, pragmatic, ambitious and disciplined. Impracticality and self-imposed pressure can get the better of the 22. When unaware of its own potential, the 22 number people will miss out on or shy away from necessary opportunities.They can be just as much of a curse as they can be a blessing. They give their insight into obstacles by calling upon their patience.

22 is a grandiose thinker with great confidence and leadership qualities with having unusual perception. These people intuition is very good and advice to them that they should rely on their first impressions. These people are practical and idealistic. 22 people tend to want to ground their ideas in realistic methods. They have enormous potential for success. They may secretly feel that nothing will measure up to their original dream. Consequently, they can turn away from their ambitions. This can result in enormous disappointment to them. They should overcome this failure feeling and start believing in themselves. As a remedy always take advice from the experts in that field where you wanna go in your life.

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